Feb 11 2008
Human Law Attraction, In Myth and Fact
“Opposites attract” is a law of attraction, at least where electromagnetism is concerned. But there laws about the attraction between two people? “In a world that is full of aliens “as a line in a famous song of the 1980’s will, is there a clear set of rules that allows two people to fall for each other? Attraction is a matter of chemistry? Maybe. According to scientists, the attraction between of the opposite sex is all about chemicals called pheromones. The effect of pheromones in the behavior of insects is the most studied so far. It has been observed, at least in some experiments, that pheromones are responsible for communication between the same species, and a colony of ants. The horrible smell released by skunks to scare enemies is said to be a kind of pheromone. Some species of monkeys rub pheromone containing urine on the feet of potential mates to attract them.
Some scientists believe that animals (usually women) as insects and mammals send these chemical signals to tell the men of their case that their genes are different from their own. This genetic diversity is important in the production of offspring with a better chance of survival. The fragrance industry has capitalized on pheromones as a way to increase his sexual attraction to the opposite sex. The animals like whales and musk deer were hunted down for these chemicals. Lately, scientists are looking to the existence of human pheromones and its role in mate selection. There are many differences in the field of biology, chemistry, genetics and psychology. Most scientists would say that they do not exist, or if they do, do not play a role in sexual attraction between a and a woman. But new research as those conducted by Swiss researchers at the University of Berne, led by Klaus Wedekind gradually make these scientists to reconsider their position.
Their experience of women involved sniffer cotton shirts of different men during their period of ovulation. He discovered that women prefer the smell of men’s shirts that were genetically different, but the similarities shared with the feminist genes. This, as in the case of insects and other mammals, is to ensure a better and healthier for the characteristics of their future children. But the researchers also cautioned that the preference for a male smell is affected by the period of ovulation in women, food that men eat, and other scented products body, and use of contraceptive pills. Does personality contained in sexual attraction? Yes, but so does your perception of a potential mate’s personality. According to a research conducted by Klohnen, EC, & S. Luo in 2003 on interpersonal attraction and personality, a person’s sense of self-security and at least the person’s perception of his partner have proved decisive D’strong attraction in hypothetical situations. What does this tell us? We prefer a certain type of personality, what attracts you to someone.
But aside from the real personality of the person, which can not be verified through close interaction over time, it is your perception of your potential partner that attracts you to it, whether the person of your affection really this type of personality or not. This could probably account for a statement commonly heard from the men and women on their relationship failed: “I thought it was that kind of person.” So how does contained in the reports of attraction? You have probably heard that the attraction is a prelude or a factor to a p. Very probably, at least initially, but the attraction alone can not make a relationship work. This is the attraction that makes you notice a person of the opposite sex, but once you get to know the person more, the attraction is a consideration. The shared values, dreams, passions and become more important in long-term relationships.
While I should stop trying to become attractive? More than trying to be physically attractive, work on all aspects of your health: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. Physical Attraction is always a precursor. Remember that biology predisposes us to choose the partner with healthy genes. When your emotions are concerned, just ask yourself this: do you want to spend time with a person who feels badly about him or herself? Probably not! It is wise to know you: who you are, your beliefs, values and dreams. And do not pretend to be someone you are not.
To have another person by making him / her believe that you share the same and beliefs is only going to cause so much disappointment. When you are healthy in all aspects, attractiveness is a consequence and not an end. As mentioned in the Luo Klohnen and research, a person’s sense of self-security issues, perhaps even beyond the attraction. But remember: do these things for you and not for other people. Only then you can really take advantage of your attractiveness as a person.
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